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There are different types of adoptions to consider when
deciding where to place your child in a loving home.
Adoption is not what it used to be... most people think that
if they place their baby for adoption that they are
abandoning them, and will never see that child again.
However, nowadays, that is not the case! There are many
types of adoption with different levels of birthparent
involvement. As the mother, you get to choose how involved
you will be in your child’s life.
Agency Adoption:
Public:
Usually financially supported and managed by the state,
counties, or cities. This may cost the adoptive parent more
than the private option, due to extended services.
Independent Adoption:
Private: An
attorney deals with mostly infant adoptions, but can also
deal with others. The private adoption may also be a
facilitator in adoption.
Several Choices of Adoptions:
Open: Allows
birthparents and adoptive parents to meet before the baby is
born, as well as exchange addresses and phone numbers
throughout the adopted child's life. It is also possible for
the families to visit one another.
Semi-Open: The
birthparents are able to pick the adoptive parents from a
profile, and are able to stay updated by pictures, etc,
through the connection of the adoption agency.
Closed: The
birthparents and adoptive parents do not meet, exchange
information, or contact one another.
You get to decide which method of adoption will work best
for you. Talk it over with friends and family, get their
input, but remember that the ultimate decision is in your
hands.
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